Tuesday, September 22, 2009

How to guess a person's character by gestures?



Today, that great knowledge, which gives us the psychology helps us very much in our everyday life. Everyone is faced with the rapid pace of life: meeting new people, keeping in touch with friends and acquaintances. In other words, we have to communicate a lot. And just for the fact that such contact would bring as much benefit, psychology presents us with various psychological techniques that can be safely used in communication. This discipline helps us to interact with people more effectively. So, this is also the aim of some techniques of NLP and body language. Since then, as psychologists are interested in sign language, many amazing things were revealed. We all understand how a big role in our lives play gestures. Especially - in business communication when necessary to conclude a contract or to persuade a partner – we use every available methods: looking for every detail, bearing in mind all facial expressions. Body language meanings is based on data, which psychologists have been analyzing of nonverbal communication of different people in different situations. Based on this analysis scholars have a better understanding of body language - which means any posture in general and position of arms, legs, various elements of mimicry.
The man who has studied body language can in 5 min. understand the most basic human emotions of a stranger, find out how he feels, whether it is convenient to him, and even learn some of the features of his character. In contrast to our speech, which is conscious, body language, facial expressions, gestures occur completely unconsciously, and of course practically uncontrolled. When people speak, they can easily lie, but the facial expressions or gestures always show the truth. So, for example, if the man during the conversation touches the eyes and eyebrows, touches the nose or touches his ear, the subconscious mind shows that this man is lying or in some doubt. By the way, have you ever thought about how communication takes place in countries where the language of the local people is unknown to you? Yes, it is through facial expressions and gestures! Even in this example it becomes apparent that it is very important to everybody to be in a good control of own body and pass through gestures and facial expressions exactly the information that is needed in particular situation.

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