Showing posts with label child. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child. Show all posts

Thursday, October 1, 2009

How do people become drug addicts?



One of the characteristics of nowadays and a significant cause of drug addiction and alcoholism - the widest expansion of various substances that can give a person a temporary pleasure. Some drugs can cause physical dependence (for example, opium, heroin, etc.), in which the body can not live without the drug, some psychological, but anyway, the termination of the use of these substances can cause withdrawal syndrome that is, the special psychological and physical condition of the body, sometimes leading to death. Use of certain drugs may lead to the development of tolerance, when the body becomes resistant to their effects, which require ever-increasing doses.

Reasons why people begin using drugs are different, but most often it is the desire to escape the doldrums, to leave the cruel and indifferent world, in its own artificially created paradise. It is not accidental that in most cases these are young people who see no other way out of their problems. One reason for initiation to alcohol and drugs is "bad family”, where education is provided either by only one parent, or where there are this atmosphere, down in the house: lack of emotional closeness and trust between family members. Mostly juveniles are beginning to use drugs from families in which children and teenagers are left for themselves.

Adults are so busy clarifying the relationship that they don’t have enough time for the child. However, this is not the only reason. There are drug-addicted families where one or both parents suffer from alcoholism or drug addiction. The probability of initiation to bad cravings for children from such families is increased by twice. Children of drug addicts is not only very early attached to the narcotic effect, but also begin their lives with drugs of the most severe forms of drug addiction - the use of household chemicals. But no less dangerous for initiation to alcohol and drugs other minor conditions in the family. Where child is watched over and supervised, monitored his every move, not giving the slightest opportunity to show independence. These children make even those actions which they understand "wrong", "no good", simply because they can not refuse.

Now, let’s speak about “normal” families, where parents just drink sometimes. In this case, child associate alcoholic drinks on the table with the atmosphere of celebration, fun in the house. Connection with that drinks seems attractive, as it helps to become more like a father and his friends - strong, brave, adult. This is the first their acquaintance with alcohol. Of course, not necessarily that it will inevitably lead to the formation of drug dependence. The problem of drug abuse in recent years is not just youth, but also teenage problem. Today, every second student aged 13 to 15 years at least once was proposed to taste drugs.

Approximately one third of them took advantage of this proposal. One of the factors for the early initiation to drug addiction - age psychological features of children and adolescents. The most disadvantaged in this respect are children and adolescents with unstable type of character, as well as striving to be the center of attention of others. For the sake of popularity they are ready to make even those actions that their soul does not approve. An introduction to drugs for them often has no independent significance, and is used in just for "their own glory." And teens can highly exaggerate their drug experience, portraying the experienced addict in order to attract attention.

Monday, September 21, 2009

Curing by Fairy Tales.

What is a fairy tale? Fictional legends and stories about magical kingdoms, adventures and mysteries? In some way, yes. But in fact, tales can do much more to us, their potential is enormous: you may make curious your child, to make him sleep at night, to calm down him and much more. Fairy tales were the object of knowledge of philosophers and poets.
But recently, the tales took a special role in psychologists’ research. There is a new psychological technique – fairy tale therapy, the basis of which is to work with fairy tales . As every other psychotherapy, fairy tale therapy helps first to know yourself. Also, thanks to this therapy, the child may stop thinking about the current problems and look at what is happening from the outside, and in that way, help himself. The focus is on plot structure psychological processes, or as they say – on stories which happen to the soul - is the basis of psychotherapy. All these stories are very typical. In other words, they are suitable for all human beings without exception. This therapy comes from the fact that the unconscious manifests itself in certain schemes, which are transmitted from mother to child in the form of fairy tales and the number of schemes rather limited and knowable. Through the tales, it is best to explore archetypes. The fact is that most of the tales of any nation are very similar. Fairy tale therapy - a particular form of depth psychotherapy, but at the same time, it is quite possible to apply for the "current" and "easy" tasks. Influencing at children with fairy tales, that is fairy tale therapy, considered the most ancient psychological method, which includes psychology.
All knowledge, all information that had our ancestors about the world around them - all of it is described in fairy tales and legends. Only in this way experience passed over from father to son. Nowadays, archetypes and information from these legends as a separate branch of psychology - which is based on fairy tales. Some people believe that fairy tales therapy applies only to work with children. Yes, this is so. But the age range covered by fairy tales therapy not limited to - talk, listen and think of fairy tales can not only children but adults and even old people. Fairy tales therapy associated with "child" method because it is addressed to the pure and responsive child in all of us.